Tente isto:
select
u.website,
sum(e.ULVolume + e. DLVolume) as volume
from mytable e
left join mytable u on u.PID = e.PID and u.event ='update'
where e.Event = 'end'
group by 1;
select
u.website,
sum(e.ULVolume + e. DLVolume) as volume
from mytable e
left join mytable u on u.PID = e.PID and u.event ='update'
where e.Event = 'end'
group by 1;