sql puxando uma linha para a linha seguinte ou anterior de uma linha atual

Isso é o que eu uso para encontrar registros anteriores/próximos. Qualquer coluna em sua tabela pode ser usada como coluna de classificação, e não são necessárias junções ou hacks desagradáveis:

Próximo registro (data maior que o registro atual):

SELECT id, title, MIN(created) AS created_date
FROM photo
WHERE created >
  (SELECT created FROM photo WHERE id = '32kJ')
GROUP BY created
ORDER BY created ASC
LIMIT 1;

Registro anterior (data inferior ao registro atual):

SELECT id, title, MAX(created) AS created_date
FROM photo
WHERE created <
  (SELECT created FROM photo WHERE id = '32kJ')
GROUP BY created
ORDER BY created DESC
LIMIT 1;

Exemplo:

CREATE TABLE `photo` (
    `id` VARCHAR(5) NOT NULL,
    `title` VARCHAR(255) NOT NULL,
    `created` DATETIME NOT NULL,
    INDEX `created` (`created` ASC),
    PRIMARY KEY (`id`)
)
ENGINE = InnoDB;

INSERT INTO `photo` (`id`, `title`, `created`) VALUES ('XEi43', 'my family',       '2009-08-04');
INSERT INTO `photo` (`id`, `title`, `created`) VALUES ('dDls',  'friends group',   '2009-08-05');
INSERT INTO `photo` (`id`, `title`, `created`) VALUES ('32kJ',  'beautiful place', '2009-08-06');
INSERT INTO `photo` (`id`, `title`, `created`) VALUES ('EOIk',  'working late',    '2009-08-07');

SELECT * FROM photo ORDER BY created;
+-------+-----------------+---------------------+
| id    | title           | created             |
+-------+-----------------+---------------------+
| XEi43 | my family       | 2009-08-04 00:00:00 |
| dDls  | friends group   | 2009-08-05 00:00:00 |
| 32kJ  | beautiful place | 2009-08-06 00:00:00 |
| EOIk  | working late    | 2009-08-07 00:00:00 |
+-------+-----------------+---------------------+


SELECT id, title, MIN(created) AS next_date
FROM photo
WHERE created >
  (SELECT created FROM photo WHERE id = '32kJ')
GROUP BY created
ORDER BY created ASC
LIMIT 1;

+------+--------------+---------------------+
| id   | title        | next_date           |
+------+--------------+---------------------+
| EOIk | working late | 2009-08-07 00:00:00 |
+------+--------------+---------------------+

SELECT id, title, MAX(created) AS prev_date
FROM photo
WHERE created <
  (SELECT created FROM photo WHERE id = '32kJ')
GROUP BY created
ORDER BY created DESC
LIMIT 1;

+------+---------------+---------------------+
| id   | title         | prev_date           |
+------+---------------+---------------------+
| dDls | friends group | 2009-08-05 00:00:00 |
+------+---------------+---------------------+