Usar:
SELECT telephone_number
FROM table
WHERE telephone_number REGEXP '^1[() -]*[[:digit:]]{3}[() -]*[[:digit:]]{3}[() -]*[[:digit:]]{4}$';
Referência:
SELECT telephone_number
FROM table
WHERE telephone_number REGEXP '^1[() -]*[[:digit:]]{3}[() -]*[[:digit:]]{3}[() -]*[[:digit:]]{4}$';