Atualizando datagridview com mysql

Dim con As MySqlConnection = New MySqlConnection("my info")
Dim reader As MySqlDataReader

Try
    con.Open()
    Dim query As String


     Dim command As MySqlCommand
        query = "UPDATE exploitsociety SET reffer='" + updateref.Text + "' WHERE reffer='" + DataGridView1.CurrentCell.Selected + "';"
        command = New MySqlCommand(query, con)
  //      reader = command.ExecuteReader

  //     you need to run ExecuteNonQuery instead of ExecuteReader
      int UpdatedRows=  command.ExecuteNonQuery();

        Catch ex As MySqlException
        MessageBox.Show(ex.Message)
    Finally
        con.Dispose()
        End try
    con.Close()